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Welcome back to another episode of the Spanking Chronicles. A series of blog posts were we look at different spanking positions and measure their effectiveness, appropriateness, and my own feelings on them. This one is a favourite position of mine, if not a favourite spanking position. Men get asked all the time, "Are you an arse or tits man?" Women rarely ever get asked questions of the like but if they did I would definitely answer, "I am all about the arse." Perhaps that is a reason I love spanking so much but even if I'm not smacking it I still love to look at it, especially when it is being offered so tantalisingly. Anyway, let's explore this position.  Description: Spankee will either be kneeling on the floor or another flat surface and he will push his forehead to the ground and his arse in the air. Simple as that. It's not a difficult position to hold or maintain, especially if the surface is comfortable. To make it even more comfortable it is go...

Welcome to another issue of 'The Spanking Chronicles', a series where I look at the different positions and methods of spanking and break them down. I look at the effectiveness, appropriateness, and my own feelings about it before rating it. This week we are looking at bending over and grabbing one's ankles (or knees). Description: This position requires the spankee to almost fold in half. The must be standing and bend over as far as the can, steadying themselves by putting their hands on their ankles, knees or even the ground depending on flexibility and balance.  Effectiveness: This is an effective position as it gives the spanker a larger target area as it has the effect of slightly flattening out the arse to bring it more in line with the thighs. So this means you can give harder spankings with longer swings. Also, much like all fours there is no chance of hitting his back. Once again this is very dangerous for the kidneys. Also, while this is good for harder spankings ...

So we have reached part 4 of the Spanking Chronicles. Last week was one I don't believe many people think about but this week we are back to the familiar. This 'bent over' position is the one that involves an object. Grabbing ankles is a different one we will cover later. As usual I will give a description of the position, talk about it's effectiveness, appropriateness, and my own feeling regarding it before giving it a final rating.  Description: This position requires the spankee to be bent over something whether it be a couch, a chair, a counter, or anything else. It can be comfortable or uncomfortable depending on what one is bent over. The legs can be close together or spread wide apart. It is quite a versatile position.  Effectiveness: This is very effective especially as a punishment. It gives you unfettered access to the boy's ass. You can move around unencumbered and be as hard or soft as you like. It is an effective discipline position as he is not being h...

Part 3 of the Spanking Chronicles is going to be covering the spanking position 'Free Standing'. This one is a little different from the others we've looked at and and you'll see why soon. As usual we are going to describe it and discuss its effectiveness, appropriateness, and my personal feelings on it.  Description: So this one is the rare spanking where the spankee has nothing to brace themselves again. They are just standing in place. (There are a few others like this but they are position holders and we'll cover them later). This one is just standing while getting spanked. There is less expectation for the spankee to stand still (which we will cover when we get to appropriateness). Movement is okay as long as they are not running away from their punishment. Appropriateness: This is not suitable for proper punishment spankings. This is usually only appropriate for if the boy needs a quick reminder or a sharp turn back to reality. If the infraction is mild then t...

Welcome back to 'Spanking Chronicles'. Last time we went through the Over the Knee position, it's effectiveness, it's appropriateness and my personal feelings on it. This time we are going to do the same for the Hands and Knees position.  Description: The spankee will kneel on all fours, either on the floor or a piece of furniture. The spanker will stand or kneel behind them. This position is perfect for a wide range of implements. It can also be maintained for longer spankings especially if the hands and knees are on a comfortable surface. Effectiveness: This is probably the position that is the most effective for all boys. The position itself brings up instant images of submission. It can be very hard to see the spanker so the fear of the punishment is easy to build up. It is effective in teaching a boy obedience in the sense that he must focus on holding his position as well as taking his spanking. However, if you want to give him a break it is easy to let him sink i...

  This is the start of a series of blog posts I will be doing about different methods and positions of spanking, their effectiveness, their appropriateness, and how I personally feel about them.  So let's start with an old classic: Over the Knee Description: Over the Knee is pretty self explanatory. The spanker is sitting and the spankee lies across the knee with their arse either in the center or at the edge of one thigh. This is a position that is perfect for hand spanking but also permits the use of certain smaller implements. It's a position that is comfortable for both parties so focus can be placed entirely on the punishment. Effectiveness: This is very effective for boys who crave comfort or are prone to feeling guilty.  A quick punishment can be administered in this position if you want to administer corner time. If he has been standing for his punishment (especially a long one) you probably don't want to leave him standing in the corner for too long. It is effec...

  This is something I haven't explored in my stories all that much but I am surprised because I've always had a slightly voyeuristic streak. I guess I did cover this a little in my  'Watching Pleasure'  blog post. In that I laid out why I think watching subs masturbate is arousing but that was mostly surrounding my obedience kink and how the idea of them obeying me and stripping themselves bare (physically and emotionally) just because I told them to is what is hot.  However there is the plain and simple aspect of just thinking that the image of someone pleasure themselves is hot.  When you are in the hands of another there is a certain amount of control you have to surrender. That means there is also a certain amount of pressure removed. If you are doing it yourself there can be either an ease or a desperation depending on the circumstance.  Ease: If you are in no hurry then pleasuring your own cock can be easy because you set the pace and give yourself wh...