Femme_Domme_Fatale

I wrote a post a while back asking for advice about a needy boy. For those of you that aren't regular readers, I provide discipline for two boys. One is pretty self-sufficient but the other is significantly more needy. I get that a lot of subs want a relationship where the Domme tells them what to do all the time but for me, competency, intelligence, self-sufficiency, and mind of one's own and important qualities I look for in a sub. I like to be in charge but doing everything is exhausting.  So I asked for some advice on how to handle this situation. I had tried: Punishing him for time wasting Providing self discipline guidelines Asking a female friend of his to keep an eye on his state I received some great advice that I implemented into my discipline routine but things like this take long term work. So decided to let you all know what is happening three months on.  In short, things have gotten better but he is still insanely needy. I can tell he is trying but I think he j...

 So, I've been quite wrapped up in this historical fiction I am writing to be audio published on my  patreon . So I decided this blog post was going to have a little preview snippet with commentary from me. Commentary will be in red.  It would be forever dubbed the incident in her mind because if she thought of it as anything else she would feel a blush cover her entire face.  Dominant people are always portrayed as pillars of strength who feel nothing but dominant. I hate that.  It started when Elijah decided to go on any evening ride. He ordered her to get his riding crop, reasonable as it was her job, then he said, “on second thought, get the longer one … no, no actually the first one.” I was interested in this story because dominance can be more than just a matter of gender. In history class always trumped gender. So for matriarchal history fiction I wanted to explore that dynamic.  He was doing this on purpose. It was when he dropped the riding crop ...

  A while ago I created a  blog post  concerning basic positions for submissive boys to practice. I thought it would be a good idea to follow up on that with some more. These ones are a little bit more difficult but not especially strenuous. I advise all submissive boys to practice these on a regular basis. Remember, posture is everything.  Table Many people call this all fours but there are a couple of all fours positions. Table is a position where the back is flat enough to balance things on. This boy does not have good posture and would get a few smacks on the arse until he corrects it. Serving as a table is something a lot of boys find very relaxing. It means that they don't need to think about anything except keeping position.  Cat It was sooooo hard to find a picture of a man in this position so this will just have to do. Cat posture is another all fours position except the back is arched and the head is up. This pose is more for presentation than function...

  I know I have spoken about this before on this blog but it came to mind again because when I am looking for femdom fiction it is so difficult to come across works that don't involve some kind of feminization.  What is the point of female domination if the submissive partner is just going to embody the archaic signs of female submissiveness? Why dominate a man if he is going to be as much of a woman as possible? Why worship femininity if being forced to embody it is some form of humiliation?  I am a woman. I am attracted to men. I am dominant. I want to dominate men. I know that traditional view of manhood brings to mind aggressive and forcefulness which we associate with dominance. It is an understandable view point to take. But that comes from a world that doesn't exist anymore. Now, domination is quiet, emotional, personal. All things we associate with women.  So why are people so uncomfortable with men in all their masculinity being dominated? Why do they have t...