Home Renovations

More a life update than anything else however it did give me some thoughts on submissive scenarios. 

So the news is that I am having renovations done on my home. Mostly remodeling the bathroom and opening up the kitchen. Suffice to say that means that the are men in my home whom I'm ordering around. 

So that bring up the question of how you make sure to remain dominant in a situation where you haven't agreed on these roles before hand. 

It is quite simple. You make use of any position you are in and find how you are in control. 

This one is straight forward become not only are you the customer but they are also operating in you home. So there are plenty things that put you in control of the situation. 

Still you have to be smart about it because if you just start stomping around making demands you will be branded nothing more than a difficult customer rather than someone people 'want' to serve. 

The important thing is to always smile and ask gently but make it known that you won't tolerate any mistakes. You should have seen the looks on some of these men's faces. It was like they were always so use to being in charge. It stands to reason that they feel that way as they are professional tradesmen so they are usually the ones in the room who are most in the know.

I however, have a great amount of knowledge in this area and like in most situations I know what I want. One of them even made me a cup of tea before going on his break and asked me if I needed anything else. Such a sweetheart. If I need such services again I will certainly be hiring him. 



So that got me thinking of a few scenarios. It is the classic porn set up so it is not something I would normally think about but it takes into consideration everything I like about women dominating men. 

Men do not act feminine in order to be thought of as submissive. They are doing work thought of as traditionally masculine but are still submissive because they are providing a service. 

So here is how it would go. There would be plenty of bending over for my own enjoyment. Perhaps he is aware of his own attractiveness and is doing it on purpose. I would walk up behind him and put one hand in his back pocket and the other on his crotch. He would stiffen but I would know his interest immediately. 

It wouldn't take much, just a quick order to get down on his knees and service me with his tongue. The look of eagerness on his face would send ecstasy through me. If he does a good enough job made he would get to fuck me on the counter. 

Of course he wouldn't get to cum until he finished the job. So he'd have to tuck himself away and we'd do this song and dance every day until the job is finished and he's earned his orgasm. 


So, anyone out there ever slept with a client or someone who was working for them?


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