Shopping for Female Dominated Valentine's Day

 Now, I have never been that into toys. I've never really felt as though I needed them. Femdom hasn't ever really been a matter of play to me, it's real. So a small part of me feels like introducing toys is introducing play. 

But at the same time you can play within a femdom relationship. Role Play for example is something I'm really interest in because it creates a huge amount of potential for authority scenarios. And even though you don't need them, costumes and props can really help you immerse yourself in the role. 

So more and more over the years I have gotten into toys. I especially like anal toys because there is nothing I love more than a boy's behind. 

So if you are looking for a cheeky Valentine's day toy here are some of my favourites:


  • Now here is a fun one that I will be using in my latest story. Butt plugs are really erotic for me. Not only does it provide both pleasure and discomfort for the wearer but there is something about it that seems to suggest that no-one other than the person who put it there (or ordered it there) gets to remove it. Putting one of these in a boy is like saying, "He is off limits. You can look but you can't touch." I find them more arousing than chastity cages, which I don't often use. I prefer my boys to be in control of themselves in that sense. And these little heart shaped designs are just so amusing and appropriate that I couldn't help myself. 

  • Now being a Gentle Domme means that not a lot of torture goes on in my bedroom. Punishment, yes. Pain for pain's sake, no. (Not that there is anything wrong with boys and Dommes who enjoy that kind of play. If it brings both parties pleasure and satisfaction it is worth doing). However I do have a fondness for ticklishness. I don't like the rough kind of tickling. It reminds me too much of childish play. However delicate touches of another's flesh are incredible erotic to me. I am actually quite fond of scratching myself and seeing the red lines appear. Running my nails or something like this feather toy over a boy's body, and watching the muscles jump is a great way to spend an evening. 

  • You get so many porn videos of male doms ordering their female subs to bounce on a cock. It is a substitute for what the sub really wants, which is the master's dick but can't have it because she hasn't been permitted. The eroticism comes from someone wanting something so desperately but having to settle for the next best thing, giving a show all the while begging for the real thing because the substitute can never measure up. Why does that have to be confined to women? I would find it so erotic to watch a man so desperately pound away at this toy because he has not yet earned the real thing. Hs mistress' cunt. Desperation is incredibly erotic. 
  • I talked about role play earlier and one I love is doctor and patient. Doctors have an extreme amount of authority in our world. It's a very gentle, almost invisible authority that we don't always think about. Consider all the times you have had to be in a vulnerable position in front of your doctor. Consider the private parts of you they've touched. And yet you, for some reason feel totally safe in their presence. Your Doctor would never do anything to hurt you.
  • And lastly we have the bullet. I know it is a classic put there is something about knowing that a tiny little vibrating machine is inside a boy's body and is causing him pleasure that he is not allowed to escape from but not allowed to release either. Maybe he could endure a few sessions with it for days before Valentine's day and then if he is a good boy he gets to cum as his present. Granted of course that he cooks you a lovely dinner and if on his best behaviour. 

Right boys, those are my picks for some great Valentine's day fun. I have really gotten into toys recently. They add a little extra to the fun. But I still maintain that you need to function without them before introducing them. 

So my question for this post is, do you use toys? And if you do, tell me about them. 


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