Basic Submissive Positions For Good Boys

When training a boy it is always important to start small and be patient. If he gets it wrong be sure to punish him. Gentle and firm is always a good tone for first timers. Also be sure to praise what he gets right.

So let's start with the easy positions:

Attention:
This is a good position to keep your boy in when he is servicing you but you don't need him for the moment. Make sure he stands up straight and keeps his chin up and arms by his side. Gently correct any poor posture changes with swift smacks to the bottom. Even the best boy can forget when is left for too long. 

Wait:
This one is great for service if you have continuous need for him and you need him to be on alert for his next order (he always should be but this is a good posture to remind him). He should stand straight with his legs spread and his arms behind his back. This is also a good position to keep him in if he is waiting for a spanking and you don't do corner time. 

Kneeling:
Kneeling should be a good boy's favourite posture. If he is a true submissive he should be at his most relaxed here. If I want my boys to meditate on their submission I order them to place their hands palm up. If it is a more relaxed kneel then palm down in fine. Remember to check his posture and give him gentle correction if his back is not straight. 
Modest Kneel:
Almost exactly like kneeling except with legs spread. This is a good position if you want your boy to be on display. Also if you don't want to leave him standing this is a good substitute for the wait posture.


 
 Collar Me:
This one is a favourite of mine. I rarely order boys into this position. I prefer to use it as a way my boys can ask for my attention. They are in a submissive position (on their knees) and at the same time, are leaving their whole body open to me. It is a position of complete trust. Other mistress' may be different but my boys always look me in the eye while they are in this position. The pleading look on their faces fills me with warmth. I'm a softy so it's hard to resist but as a Mistress you are under no obligation to give attention. Many Mistress' choose this posture before a scene starts. I'm no different. 

So, that is a beginners exercise. It is also good to practice every now and then. Just remember these key points:
  • Posture is everything
  • Correct any mistakes. 
  • Use the positions in situations that are right for you. 
  • Don't leave a boy in one position for too long.
  • Be sure to praise good performance. 

 Any questions are welcome. 

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  1. paulBostonNovember 4, 2020 at 7:21 AM

    Yes Ma'am.. How delicious to be understood and trained!

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